Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Mary's Journey

So I know that many of you have been checking and hoping for an update. Sorry it has taken us so long. Each time I think of blogging I think, maybe I'll wait and just update it when the baby comes...so far, obviously no baby. And so here is the update...

There has not been a real significant change/progress in the progression of labor. I just found out this morning during a non-stress test that I am having Braxton-Hicks contractions. No big thing though, I hardly know when they are happening. It only means that my body is getting ready for birth. So if we don't have the baby before December 30th, I will be induced. So we will (keep your fingers crossed) have a baby before the New Year!

I was thinking about this whole experience the other day, and realized that since it is the day of Jesus' birth, Mary and I have something in common. I know it may be a stretch, but being due around the same time, I was thinking how uncomfortable I am. That led me to think about Mary and how she must have felt. I have the luxury of riding in a car, wearing shoes, and not traveling on a donkey across a desert and mountains. I can only imagine that must have been what induced her labor. I am excited that tonight I get to reflect more on this thought and celebrate with all people the joy that I am feeling and the joy that Mary felt too.

I wish you all a Peaceful Christmas and time to enjoy your loved ones company. We will be thinking of you all during this joyous season.

Merry CHRISTmas!
With love from the Vera's

Friday, December 12, 2008

Ready or Not...

I can't believe how busy we have been... and we haven't even had the baby yet! Yikes! Our apartment has long looked like it was hit by a mini-tornado. Now with part of a day off, I am hoping to do some serious cleaning. These past few weeks since Thanksgiving have flown by; we have had something going on just about every weekday night and weekend since then. It seems like we are only in our apartment for sleeping and an occasional bathing! So as we have been running around, the boxes and garbage and dirty clothes have all been piling up. By the way, thank you to all of you who have sent gifts and cards to us for Baby Vera!!!

Advent is indeed a time of preparation. Calie and I are anxiously looking forward to the birth of two babies. The birth of our own, and of course the birth of the Christ Child who must never be overlooked at Christmas time. It certainly appears that these two babies may have pretty similar birthdates as Calie is perfectly on schedule to deliver pretty close to our December 25th due date. Unfortunately, the doctor certainly didn't seem think the baby would come any sooner. Hopefully they decorate those hospital rooms nice and cozy for Christmas time. Calie is still feeling very good—no sickness or anything like that! Her feet are a bit more tired at the end of the day but she's a trooper and rarely ever complains. She is definitely ready for this little bundle to leave her body, but she would be the first to tell you how lucky we've been thus far. But as you can imagine, we are sooooooooooo excited! We sat at our church's childcare Christmas program last night and couldn't help but become even more excited about our own incoming cutie as we watched all the kids singing their Christmas carols. Although this is being said BC (before children), but I'm even looking forward to getting up multiple times in the middle of the night to attend to a crying baby. I know, I know I’ll change my tune quickly in a few weeks! Oh yeah, and my sister sent me a "Father to Be" t-shirt a couple of weeks ago. It's pretty dang sweet. I think I have worn it more days than not. In fact, I am wearing it as I sit here blogging.

This upcoming Saturday afternoon our church is throwing us a baby shower. The congregation that has already warmly embraced and shown us so much love is now very excited to share in this baby experience with us. Our newborn will have plenty of honorary grandparents and I'm sure that, at least for once in our lives, we will never be at a lost for babysitters! So on Sunday after church, Calie and I hope to spend the rest of the day making sure we are ready for whenever Baby Vera arrives. We'll make sure our diapers and spit-rags are well stocked. Put the finishing touches on the baby's room decor. Finish installing the car seats. And probably head to good ol' Target for some last-minute essentials. I'm not so sure that we'll ever be really ready, but hopefully this weekend will give us a chance to feel a bit closer!

That's about all for now. Please keep Calie and Baby in your prayers, for safe and healthy delivery for both! And stay posted as we'll have news and pictures up as soon as possible. May this Advent season fill you with hope and joy as we celebrate the in-breaking of Christ and live in expectation of His return. Merry CHRISTmas!

Sunday, November 30, 2008

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas

Not only a popular Christmas song, but it is also what I woke up to this morning! I have been ready and waiting for the flakes for awhile, and here they are! Although they are very scarce. (It's only a light dusting). Here are the pictures from our porch door.











We had a fantastic Thanksgiving celebration this year. The car rides seemed longer than usual, but we made it! We managed to arrive only a few minutes before the food was on the table! Our brother-in-law wasn't feeling good, but made it to the table to eat, which was comendable! We celebrated birthdays and had a few good laughs. My nieces made some great turkeys out of oreo cookies, which were both nice to look at and yummy to eat! It was a great meal and evening, eventhough my sister and her family had to leave early.

When we arrived, there were Black Friday ads all over the table. We all looked through them, but didn't find anything that any of us needed. We thought that it would be fun to go, but decided against it. While we were eating breakfast the next morning, we quickly decided that we should go and just check out the good deals, so we left the boys to haul wood from the woods, and we (my mom and I) went shopping. We were victorious at our first stop. We found a doorbuster, at 9:30, that was sold out online and in other stores. What a deal! We also found some other good deals on clothes. Regardless of the deals, it was nice to spend the day shopping and bumming around with my mom.

Now we are back and starting the real countdown until our baby is born. Only 25 days!! When we returned last night, we also found out that our friends Nikki and Andy Becker from Seminary welcomed their first child this weekend. He was a week early and 7 pounds 1 ounce and his name is Nathan Andrew Becker. We are very excited for all of them!

My nesting feelings have kicked in, so I am going to scrub the kitchen from top to bottom right now. Sounds fun huh!?!

Monday, November 24, 2008

Don't Mess with Thanksgiving

So I was looking back at all of the pictures of me each month of pregnancy. What changes...here is month 8.



Steve and I have been quite busy these past few weeks. We somehow seem to get lost in the day-to-day routines, and get to catch up together on the weekends, which also go way too fast.

We have finally put together the baby's room, which means that I put away what clothes we have, and made the crib. My wonderful Mom sewed us a crib skirt and curtain valance out of fabric that we found. So this past weekend we found a curtain rod and long curtains to block out light. Here is what we have done so far.





The only problem that I have now is that the room looks very Green Bay Packerish, which is NOT what I was going for. If you know me at all, you will know that I am the anti-packer backer. How this happened is beyond me, but I am very distraught about this!

Aside from the baby, and the count down, we have been busy with church events. We finished up our big 50 Days Ablaze Bible study with an ethnic potluck which was very well attended. Steve preached at a different church on Sunday, which was fun to see another, more contemporary church.

I am gearing up to eat a feast this week, and I hope that you all are too! I am excited to go back to my parents house, see family, eat food, and relax.

I hope that you all have a very Happy Thanksgiving, and give thanks for all that is in your world. We owe it all to God, and Thanksgiving is a great time to remember all that He has done for us.

Friday, November 7, 2008

We Got a House!

Yes it is true! Though Calie and I are only here for one year on vicarage, we took the plunge and got a house. It really is a beautiful home with a two-car garage. It is in a great neighborhood, has a lovely backyard with a 3-season patio, and enables us to do free laundry whenever we want! OK, truth be told...we are just house sitting. For the past week and a half, Calie and I have been house-sitting and dog-sitting for our pastor and his wife while they were away on some well-deserved vacation. And I have to say, the concept of having a home and not renting an apartment is awfully nice! Direct TV has been an added bonus too! Plus I think we've done about 20 loads of laundry (We were storing up for awhile, though I'm exaggerating a bit...I think). Our time here at the house ends today, so as I await the buzzer to go off on the dryer I thought I would take the time to blog. Even though I should be memorizing my sermon for Sunday and looking over my Bible study material. Oh well...

This past Wednesday, we celebrated 3 years of wedded bliss. We went out and had a nice dinner, after much indecisiveness as to where to eat. But as always, we had a nice evening together and capped it off with our local favorite ice-cream place. Because as "G" always says, 'there is always room for ice-cream'! Of course, to Calie these first years felt like forever! Just kidding, but she does think it seems a lot longer and when you consider our moves from Hudson to St. Louis, seminary, new jobs, and now a move from St. Louis to vicarage it's easy to see how jam-packed and full of change our first 3 years have been. Oh, and then there's the small measure of having a wife who is prego!

Well, as Calie last blogged about, we did purchase our stroller/car seat. It has since been delivered, assembled, and now just awaits our little bundle of joy. Everything is still going very well. Calie feels great while she continues to blossom. The baby pretty much moves and kicks non-stop! Currently, we have doctor's appointments every other week, but pretty soon it will be on a weekly basis. Last night we had our first Lamaze class; these will continue over the next two weeks. It's always nice to see a little bit of what we're in for. However, I did learn that Calie is a bit to ticklish to practice some of the relaxing techniques we tried. The time is quickly approaching! We'll soon have to put some finishing (and starting) touches on our extra bedroom which is excitedly becoming the baby's room. Thank you to everyone who has sent clothes, gifts, cards, and all that fun baby stuff! Honestly, right now it's all still in boxes, piles, or stuck in the corner so we'll have plenty to keep us busy in the next 48 days. Ready or not, here baby comes!

Other than that, things are going well. Vicarage continues to be a great learning experience for me. I love the church staff and all the congregation members. It has been a very good place for me to learn about different types/places of ministries, as well as affirm and fine-tune some of the gifts and passions God has given to me. Over the next month or so I'll have the opportunity to preach at some small rural churches. Also I will be able to lead worship and preach at an area LCMS church plant, very contemporary and full of young families. I also continue to try and figure out the art of ministry with our area college campuses. Campus ministry takes a special type of person and passion; I'm not sure if that's me or not yet but it has gotten me to move out of some of my comfort levels and try new things. Thanks to the inspiration of a good friend and classmate, my next project is trying to figure out how to record, create, and post weekly video devotionals on YouTube for my college students. This way a Gospel message and invitation to church is only a click away while they sit in their dorms and classrooms.

That's more than enough for now. So much to say, so little time. I always get too long-winded when I start rambling and blogging. Perhaps that just another affirmation that I'm going into the right vocation! God's richest blessings to you all...

Monday, October 20, 2008

Long awaited pictures

So I am sitting here watching morning TV, sipping on my Carmel Reindeer drink from Caribou, and enjoying my morning. It's true life is good.

The thought is become more and more real that we will soon have a little baby in our home. This weekend we ordered our stroller system. I am super excited to get it! Here is the picture of what we ordered...


So I think that we only need to buy a few more things before the baby comes. We have started to make a list, but I think that most of the "big" things are already purchased. I am probibly missing something obvious, but for now, I think that we are ok.

So some people have asked for the following pictures, so here they are... enjoy my bump!


4 months

5 months

6 months

7 months

Sunday, October 12, 2008

It's been too long

So first I must say that I found my camera cord, so this blog is full of pictures...hope you don't mind. I must not have looked too hard, because it was in the most logical place ever...the drawer next to the computer! Who knew?!

So here are the pictures of our crib and dresser puting together days:


We also enjoyed the fantastic wedding October 4th of a friend from our old church in Hudson. THe wedding was beautiful. In between we had the chance to visit Minnehaha Falls in St. Paul, since 10/4 is the anniversary of our "offical dating". We didn't have that much time to spend there, but it was beautiful.

After the wedding and reception, we drove to my parents house for the night. We were blessed to have a baby shower on Sunday. I know that this isn't going to be a hit, but we forgot to take any pictures. We had wonderful food, laughs, and fun. Thanks to all who came!

Steve and I also were fortunate enough to get away for this past weekend. Steve took me on a birthday/last-time-away-before-the-baby-comes getaway weekend trip to Alexandria. It was SO nice to spend time together. He also surprised me with a 3 1/2 hour spa treatment ... pedicure, manicure, pariffin wax, and massage. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Here are the pictures: